我也不知道
你会在什么时间 什么地点 什么场合
向我求婚
我想 我会哭
这个时候 你只要抱着我 就好了
人生仅有一次的
我想 我们都该用心的经过。
可以不要烛光晚餐
不要俗气的玫瑰
但是我想要一枚简单的戒指。
不去衡量钻石的重量
只要看到你眼里满溢的幸福
我便知足
这个人 我嫁定了
好了
你现在是我老公了
已经在我的配偶栏里签名了
你是我合法的丈夫了
恭喜你娶了这个世界上独一无二的我
不是最漂亮的 却是最适合你的 不退不换 却要你终身维护
你要带我去旅行
去我所有梦想过的地方
因为有你牵我的手 我才会觉得自己比一个人幸福
在我想睡觉的时候 旁边有个肩膀可以靠
走累的时候 可以矫情的让你背我
而且 不许说我重。
我想要的家很简单
不要很大的房子
却要很大的床
很大的落地窗以及软软的沙发
或许我还可以任性的要个更衣室
放满我乱七八糟的衣服
我想和你蜷在一起
看着电影吃爆米花喝雪碧
关于家庭劳务
我讲究合理分配
我喜欢拖地
那么你就得负责洗碗
我负责买菜的时候那么你就得负责做菜
如果两个人一起买菜的话
那么我洗菜你做菜吧
要是你哪天表现非常好
或许我也愿意下厨为你做美味
虽然现在我的厨艺只能算初级
可是我会努力提高烹饪水平、做完美的厨娘。
你不用陪我逛街
因为那是姐妹淘的事情
但是你所有的衣服必须有我陪你去买
因为这是妻子对丈夫最大的权力和爱好
你可以有自己的品位
但是要接受我的建议
因为只有我认为你好看的时候 你才是真的无敌好看
你要经常给我爸妈打电话
要对他们好
因为他们你才有幸娶到我
允许你可以告状
我的那些老毛病他妈的清楚
习以为常了
你就多担待担待哈
我也会经常去看望你的父母
去陪他们散步聊天
因为老人家都喜欢热闹
对于儿女的挂念 他们都会觉得温暖。
我们吵架的时候谁也不可以走出家门
不可以离开对方的视线
不可以摔门砸东西
这是恶劣以及没有素养的行为
如果我做错了
十分钟后我便会装可怜去乞求你的原谅
这个时候你不可以摆酷
不可以可以忽视
要乖乖的配合我所有行动
如果是你错了
那么你得逗我开心
说冷笑话比较靠谱，因为我笑点不是很高。
你不开心的时候不可以一个人
也不可以什么都不说
哪怕让我静静地陪你坐着都可以
我只希望你的任何时候都有我和你一起度过
我不开心的时候我一定会想到你
你要无条件的任我宰割，无怨无悔。
你的朋友聚会可以不带上我就别带上我
我也希望你有自己的空间
可以和你的兄弟们聊聊你们的话题
但是不可以喝醉
不可以夜不归宿
如果偶尔我和朋友们玩到很晚
一定要来接我，风雨无阻。
我一直希望你是个贴心温柔的男人
却又有自己的深度和原则
所以家里的大事情我会听你的
小事情你得听我的
比如我爸爸打的牌你一定都得学会
你妈妈喜欢的菜我一定都会学着去做。
失眠的时候你不必陪着我说话
我们都可以不必交代自己多少从前
但是我会告诉你你对我有多重要
因为我曾经那么深信会照顾我的人都离开我
现在是你，撑起了我的天
所以我会珍惜你，会对你负责
那个时候我可能会掉眼泪
只要你抱着我就好了
因为从来没有人给过我那么温暖的拥抱。
我会为你生儿育女
我会当个好妈妈
会全心全意照顾你们
哪怕牺牲我的工作
我一直觉得女人一生最重要的工作真的是相夫教子
等我的宝宝懂事了
那么你一定要支持我做自己喜欢的事
因为我的人生 真的有很多梦想。
……
我已经不去想像你的模样
有些人再相爱却也不会在一起
所以我和你应该不是在很相爱的情况下结婚的
但是我们都会喜欢彼此
时光会把我们绑紧
然后 爱便会深刻了
一辈子，
有时候很短，
所以我们都不要浪费时光在争吵和计较里
幸福的生活，便是最好的诠释。
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I quickly translated this and sent it to Si. He said it looked like I wrote it myself, very sweet. True, I felt so related to the writer..
To Him Who Is Going To Marry Me
I am not sure
At what time, what location, and on what occasion
You will propose to me
I think, I will cry
At that time, all you need to do, is to hug me
The only time in our lives
I think, we should experience it with our true hearts.
I don’t need a candle dinner
I don’t need any tacky roses
But, I would like a simple ring.
I won’t judge the weight of the diamond
As long as I see the happiness in your eyes
I will be satisfied
This man, I’m going to marry.
OK, now you are my hubby
You have signed in the "spouse" field on the paper
You have become my legal husband.
Congratulations on marrying the one and only me
Not the prettiest in the world, but the most suitable for you
No refund, no exchange, but I need your lifetime warranty
You shall take me travelling
Take me to wherever I have dreamed of going
I feel happier than when I was by myself, because I have you to hold my hands
When I sleep, there is a shoulder for me to rely on
When I am tired of walking, I can act like a baby and ask you to carry me on your back.
And, you are not allowed to say I’m heavy.
The home I want is simple
I don’t want a big house
But I need a big bed, big windows and a soft sofa
Maybe I can be unreasonable and demand a dressing room, accommodating my messy clothes
I want to curl around with you, watching movies, eating popcorn and drinking sprite
About housework
I promote fair allocation
If I like sweeping the floor
Then you will wash the dishes
If I go shopping for groceries
Then you will be in charge of cooking
If we go shopping for groceries together
Then I wash and cut the ingredients, and you cook
If you are being a very good boy
I will be willing to cook for you too
Although my cooking skills are at the beginner’s level right now
I’m going to improve it, and be your perfect cook
You don’t need to accompany me when I go shopping
Because that’s the duty of girl friends
But with all your purchases of clothes, I have to be around
Because this is the biggest right and hobby a wife can have against her husband
You can have your own taste
But you need to accept my recommendations
Because only when I think you look handsome, you are incredibly handsome
You need to call my parents frequently
Be nice to them
You are lucky to have married me because of them
You are allowed to whinge about me to them
Those old habits of mine
My parents know very well
Hope you can tolerate
I will also visit your parents often
Walk with them, chat with them
For old people like to be surrounded by people
They feel warm inside when their children think of them
When we have a fight, no one is allowed to leave the house
Not allowed to be away from each other’s sight
Not allowed to smash the door or things
This is an ugly and not elegant behaviour
If I am in the wrong
Ten minutes later I will act innocent and beg for your forgiveness
You cannot pretend to be cool when this happens
You cannot ignore me
You have to cooperate with me with every action
If you are in the wrong
Then you have to make me happy
Maybe give me some dry jokes, because I laugh at them easily
When you are not happy, you shouldn’t be all by yourself
You shouldn’t be silent
Let me be there for you, even just sit beside you quietly
I only hope that I can be with you at any moment of your life
When I’m sad, I will always think of you
You must listen to me then, without any regrets
When you go out with friends, don’t bring me if you can get away with not bringing me
I also want you to have your own space
You can talk to your guy friends about guy topics
But you mustn’t get drunk
And you mustn’t stay out when late
If I go out with my friends until very late
You must come pick me up, regardless of storms or winds
I always hope you are a kind and gentle man
At the same time you will have your own deepness and principles
Therefore for the big decisions in the household, I will listen to you
And for decisions about smaller things, you have to listen to me
For example, you have to learn all the card games my dad plays,
And I will learn to cook all of the dishes your mum likes.
When I lose my sleep, you don’t need to stay up and talk with me
We don’t need to tell each other about all our past histories
But I will tell you how important you are to me
Because the man I used to trust so much even left me
Now it’s you, who has lifted my sky
I will cherish you, and be responsible for you
I may have tears, and you only need to hug me
Because no one else has ever given me such warm hugs.
I will raise kids with you
I will be a good mum
I will look after you and them with my full heart
Even if that means I have to sacrifice my career
I’ve always believed the most important job in a woman’s life is to take care of the husband and kids
When our babies grow up
Then you need to support me in what I like to do
Because I also have a lot of dreams in my life
……
I have stopped thinking about your image
Some people love each other but can’t be together
So you and I may not be getting married under the circumstances that we love each other very deeply
But we will like each other a lot
Time will tighten us together
Then, love becomes deeper
A lifetime, sometimes is very short
So we shouldn’t waste time in fighting or calculating
Happy life together, is the best gift.
