悬崖上的华尔兹

开心网上别人对我的印象评价

ducklinggoldfish — Sun, 02 Jan 2011 02:49:48 +0000

2010年平安夜的照片

ducklinggoldfish — Fri, 24 Dec 2010 11:55:11 +0000

试验一下wordpress的照片功能。。跟我用过的其他blog好像都不大一样耶。。

2010.10.10

ducklinggoldfish — Sun, 19 Dec 2010 13:20:34 +0000

在这充满着吉祥如意感的数字的日子，我踏上了回国的旅程。对于赛来说，是他第一次去中国，也是他10岁以来第一次到亚洲，并且是他平生第一次踏上北半球的大陆。

早晨9点05的航班，我们5点多就必须起床。可是我莫名其妙的把手机弄成了无声，联系好的接机的人给我短信提醒我都没有听见还在呼呼大睡。他5点半之后打我的电话我才醒来，已经比原计划迟了很多了。简直就是典型的我的作风，无语。

匆匆忙忙的洗漱完毕之后赶去机场，之后花了好久找那不显眼的退税办公室，所以上飞机还是赶得蛮紧的。

又坐了一回新航的A380的upper deck，对于经济舱来说，它还是舒服的没话说。不过我也是困得稀里哗啦，所以基本是无心使用那些娱乐系统的，大多时间在半死不活的欲睡不睡间度过。

新加坡的机场依然是一如既往的赞。而且每次去都会有不同的惊喜。这次看到了PS3和XBOX游戏机区域，室内花园、水池、金鱼，拍大头贴的机器们，3D电影休息区和real 3D的屏幕展示。在这个机场，即使要等几个小时，也会觉得时间不知不觉的就过去，不过太过劳累。

然后在这天午夜时候，我们到达了北京首都机场的三号航站楼。这时的北京暴雨大作，不过我妈妈找的接我们的人开着一辆高级的奥迪车，我们也没淋到雨就顺利到达了位于东四十条的北京亚洲大酒店。但是到达酒店好像已经接近2点了，这一天累的实在不轻。当然，之后几个礼拜的行程，也很难用轻松来形容。

感谢Bobby同学无比大方、免费提供给我的酒店的公寓套间。这显然是我们这次budget travel中住过的最好的酒店房间，居然也是最便宜的（免费吗）！公寓包括了厨房，浴室，很大的客厅和卧室。酒店走路到东四十条火车站也就5分钟的样子。

这天晚上一定得好好的睡一觉！！第二天没有计划太紧张的行程，因为长途航行后的休息，实在太重要了。

我超爱这个系列的照片喔

ducklinggoldfish — Fri, 12 Nov 2010 14:16:03 +0000

1951 Rolls Royce

ducklinggoldfish — Tue, 28 Sep 2010 06:26:38 +0000

Services/products we ordered locally:

1) this 1951 Rolls Royce wedding car

2) the photographer on the day

3) the wedding roses bouquet

4) my makeup artist

5) our wedding rings

6) chocolates, chocolate boxes (ebay), my tiara (ebay), his shirt and shoes, my dress for the evening/dinner

All the rest were ordered via ebay from China (his button hole flower was via ebay from UK) -my dress,my handbag, my shoes, my veil, his tie, his cufflinks, his handkerchief, my necklace, my gloves, umbrella, fan

However even though the dress was purchased from China, the biggest cost of this wedding was for the local tailor to amend the dress -__- T_T

新相机TX9

ducklinggoldfish — Sun, 19 Sep 2010 08:03:05 +0000

看到Benjamin用TX7拍出来的S.H.E演唱会照片之后我彻底疯了，梦寐以求的卡片机功能啊啊。。。于是我打算入手TX9了，可是澳洲很傻居然没有我最中意的金色版，只好定了巨粉无比的红色版。。

下面放出几张Benjamin的TX7照的演唱会照片：

去Coogee看婚车

ducklinggoldfish — Mon, 13 Sep 2010 00:32:05 +0000

从来没有去过Coogee Beach，昨天去Coogee Bay Road看婚车，顺便去了一下这个蛮著名的beach，阳光无限好。

路边看到一辆淡黄色的敞篷甲壳虫，觉得N可爱就凑过去照一张。。真wish那是我自己的车啊哈哈，我们很配也^ ^

婚车是1960年的劳斯莱斯，香槟色的，在车库看过之后从Coogee走到Bondi的路上居然看见同一辆！！当时有别人的wedding也租用了它 -_-

(轉)写给娶我的那个人。

ducklinggoldfish — Fri, 10 Sep 2010 01:04:38 +0000

我也不知道
你会在什么时间什么地点什么场合
向我求婚
我想我会哭
这个时候你只要抱着我就好了
人生仅有一次的
我想我们都该用心的经过。

可以不要烛光晚餐
不要俗气的玫瑰
但是我想要一枚简单的戒指。
不去衡量钻石的重量
只要看到你眼里满溢的幸福
我便知足
这个人我嫁定了

好了
你现在是我老公了
已经在我的配偶栏里签名了
你是我合法的丈夫了
恭喜你娶了这个世界上独一无二的我
不是最漂亮的却是最适合你的不退不换却要你终身维护

你要带我去旅行
去我所有梦想过的地方
因为有你牵我的手我才会觉得自己比一个人幸福
在我想睡觉的时候旁边有个肩膀可以靠
走累的时候可以矫情的让你背我
而且不许说我重。

我想要的家很简单
不要很大的房子
却要很大的床
很大的落地窗以及软软的沙发
或许我还可以任性的要个更衣室
放满我乱七八糟的衣服
我想和你蜷在一起
看着电影吃爆米花喝雪碧

关于家庭劳务
我讲究合理分配
我喜欢拖地
那么你就得负责洗碗
我负责买菜的时候那么你就得负责做菜
如果两个人一起买菜的话
那么我洗菜你做菜吧
要是你哪天表现非常好
或许我也愿意下厨为你做美味
虽然现在我的厨艺只能算初级
可是我会努力提高烹饪水平、做完美的厨娘。

你不用陪我逛街
因为那是姐妹淘的事情
但是你所有的衣服必须有我陪你去买
因为这是妻子对丈夫最大的权力和爱好
你可以有自己的品位
但是要接受我的建议
因为只有我认为你好看的时候你才是真的无敌好看

你要经常给我爸妈打电话
要对他们好
因为他们你才有幸娶到我
允许你可以告状
我的那些老毛病他妈的清楚
习以为常了
你就多担待担待哈
我也会经常去看望你的父母
去陪他们散步聊天
因为老人家都喜欢热闹
对于儿女的挂念他们都会觉得温暖。

我们吵架的时候谁也不可以走出家门
不可以离开对方的视线
不可以摔门砸东西
这是恶劣以及没有素养的行为
如果我做错了
十分钟后我便会装可怜去乞求你的原谅
这个时候你不可以摆酷
不可以可以忽视
要乖乖的配合我所有行动
如果是你错了
那么你得逗我开心
说冷笑话比较靠谱，因为我笑点不是很高。

你不开心的时候不可以一个人
也不可以什么都不说
哪怕让我静静地陪你坐着都可以
我只希望你的任何时候都有我和你一起度过
我不开心的时候我一定会想到你
你要无条件的任我宰割，无怨无悔。

你的朋友聚会可以不带上我就别带上我
我也希望你有自己的空间
可以和你的兄弟们聊聊你们的话题
但是不可以喝醉
不可以夜不归宿
如果偶尔我和朋友们玩到很晚
一定要来接我，风雨无阻。

我一直希望你是个贴心温柔的男人
却又有自己的深度和原则
所以家里的大事情我会听你的
小事情你得听我的
比如我爸爸打的牌你一定都得学会
你妈妈喜欢的菜我一定都会学着去做。

失眠的时候你不必陪着我说话
我们都可以不必交代自己多少从前
但是我会告诉你你对我有多重要
因为我曾经那么深信会照顾我的人都离开我
现在是你，撑起了我的天
所以我会珍惜你，会对你负责
那个时候我可能会掉眼泪
只要你抱着我就好了
因为从来没有人给过我那么温暖的拥抱。

我会为你生儿育女
我会当个好妈妈
会全心全意照顾你们
哪怕牺牲我的工作
我一直觉得女人一生最重要的工作真的是相夫教子
等我的宝宝懂事了
那么你一定要支持我做自己喜欢的事
因为我的人生真的有很多梦想。

……
我已经不去想像你的模样
有些人再相爱却也不会在一起
所以我和你应该不是在很相爱的情况下结婚的
但是我们都会喜欢彼此
时光会把我们绑紧
然后爱便会深刻了
一辈子，
有时候很短，
所以我们都不要浪费时光在争吵和计较里
幸福的生活，便是最好的诠释。

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I quickly translated this and sent it to Si. He said it looked like I wrote it myself, very sweet. True, I felt so related to the writer..

To Him Who Is Going To Marry Me

I am not sure

At what time, what location, and on what occasion

You will propose to me

I think, I will cry

At that time, all you need to do, is to hug me

The only time in our lives

I think, we should experience it with our true hearts.

I don’t need a candle dinner

I don’t need any tacky roses

But, I would like a simple ring.

I won’t judge the weight of the diamond

As long as I see the happiness in your eyes

I will be satisfied

This man, I’m going to marry.

OK, now you are my hubby

You have signed in the "spouse" field on the paper

You have become my legal husband.

Congratulations on marrying the one and only me

Not the prettiest in the world, but the most suitable for you

No refund, no exchange, but I need your lifetime warranty

You shall take me travelling

Take me to wherever I have dreamed of going

I feel happier than when I was by myself, because I have you to hold my hands

When I sleep, there is a shoulder for me to rely on

When I am tired of walking, I can act like a baby and ask you to carry me on your back.

And, you are not allowed to say I’m heavy.

The home I want is simple

I don’t want a big house

But I need a big bed, big windows and a soft sofa

Maybe I can be unreasonable and demand a dressing room, accommodating my messy clothes

I want to curl around with you, watching movies, eating popcorn and drinking sprite

About housework

I promote fair allocation

If I like sweeping the floor

Then you will wash the dishes

If I go shopping for groceries

Then you will be in charge of cooking

If we go shopping for groceries together

Then I wash and cut the ingredients, and you cook

If you are being a very good boy

I will be willing to cook for you too

Although my cooking skills are at the beginner’s level right now

I’m going to improve it, and be your perfect cook

You don’t need to accompany me when I go shopping

Because that’s the duty of girl friends

But with all your purchases of clothes, I have to be around

Because this is the biggest right and hobby a wife can have against her husband

You can have your own taste

But you need to accept my recommendations

Because only when I think you look handsome, you are incredibly handsome

You need to call my parents frequently

Be nice to them

You are lucky to have married me because of them

You are allowed to whinge about me to them

Those old habits of mine

My parents know very well

Hope you can tolerate

I will also visit your parents often

Walk with them, chat with them

For old people like to be surrounded by people

They feel warm inside when their children think of them

When we have a fight, no one is allowed to leave the house

Not allowed to be away from each other’s sight

Not allowed to smash the door or things

This is an ugly and not elegant behaviour

If I am in the wrong

Ten minutes later I will act innocent and beg for your forgiveness

You cannot pretend to be cool when this happens

You cannot ignore me

You have to cooperate with me with every action

If you are in the wrong

Then you have to make me happy

Maybe give me some dry jokes, because I laugh at them easily

When you are not happy, you shouldn’t be all by yourself

You shouldn’t be silent

Let me be there for you, even just sit beside you quietly

I only hope that I can be with you at any moment of your life

When I’m sad, I will always think of you

You must listen to me then, without any regrets

When you go out with friends, don’t bring me if you can get away with not bringing me

I also want you to have your own space

You can talk to your guy friends about guy topics

But you mustn’t get drunk

And you mustn’t stay out when late

If I go out with my friends until very late

You must come pick me up, regardless of storms or winds

I always hope you are a kind and gentle man

At the same time you will have your own deepness and principles

Therefore for the big decisions in the household, I will listen to you

And for decisions about smaller things, you have to listen to me

For example, you have to learn all the card games my dad plays,

And I will learn to cook all of the dishes your mum likes.

When I lose my sleep, you don’t need to stay up and talk with me

We don’t need to tell each other about all our past histories

But I will tell you how important you are to me

Because the man I used to trust so much even left me

Now it’s you, who has lifted my sky

I will cherish you, and be responsible for you

I may have tears, and you only need to hug me

Because no one else has ever given me such warm hugs.

I will raise kids with you

I will be a good mum

I will look after you and them with my full heart

Even if that means I have to sacrifice my career

I’ve always believed the most important job in a woman’s life is to take care of the husband and kids

When our babies grow up

Then you need to support me in what I like to do

Because I also have a lot of dreams in my life

……

I have stopped thinking about your image

Some people love each other but can’t be together

So you and I may not be getting married under the circumstances that we love each other very deeply

But we will like each other a lot

Time will tighten us together

Then, love becomes deeper

A lifetime, sometimes is very short

So we shouldn’t waste time in fighting or calculating

Happy life together, is the best gift.

princess dream..

ducklinggoldfish — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 03:40:01 +0000

摘了眼镜没人认识我了哈

ducklinggoldfish — Wed, 01 Sep 2010 08:08:36 +0000